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Coitus reservatus (''coitus'', "sexual intercourse, union" + ''reservatus'', "reserved, saved"),〔Cassell's ''Compact Latin Dictionary'', Dell Publishing Co. Inc., 1963〕 also known as sexual continence, is a form of sexual intercourse in which the penetrative partner does not attempt to ejaculate within the receptive partner, but instead attempts to remain at the plateau phase of intercourse for as long as possible avoiding the seminal emission. Alice Stockham coined the term ''karezza'', derived from the Italian word "carezza" meaning "caress", to describe Coitus reservatus, but the idea was already in practice at the Oneida Community. Alan Watts believed, in error, that karezza was a Persian word. The concept of karezza is loosely akin to maithuna in Hindu Tantra and Sahaja in Hindu Yoga. Control of ejaculation is a key aspect of Taoist sexual practices (known as "cai Yin pu Yang" and "cai Yang pu Yin").〔http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/GESUND/ARCHIV/SEN/CH23.HTM#b1-TAOISM%20AND%20SEX〕 == Practice of Karezza and Tantric (sexual) continence == Stockham writes, "... Karezza signifies 'to express affection in both words and action,' and while it fittingly denotes the union that is the outcome of deepest human affection, love's consummation, it is used technically throughout this work to designate a controlled sexual union." So that in practice, according to Stockham, it is more than just self-control, but mutual control where the penetrative partner helps the receptive partner and vice versa. According to Stockham this is the key to overcoming many difficulties encountered in trying to control sexual expression on an individual basis. Stockham's contribution was to apply this same philosophy of orgasm control to women as much as to men. A form of birth control, the technique also prolongs sexual pleasure to the point of achieving mystical ecstasy, according to J. William Lloyd, a practitioner of Karezza, whose own experience of cosmic consciousness appears in ''Cosmic Consciousness'', a book written by the Canadian psychiatrist Richard M. Bucke, a friend of the American poet Walt Whitman.〔Bucke, Richard Maurice, M. D. ''Cosmic Consciousness'', p. 284, Citadel Press, 1961, ISBN 0-8065-0211-8〕 In this practice, orgasm is separated from ejaculation, making possible enjoyment of the pleasure of sexual intercourse without experiencing seminal ejaculation, while still experiencing orgasm. Some would have the principles of karezza applied to masturbation, whereby a person attempts to delay orgasm as long as possible to prolong pleasure in a process known as "orgasmic brinkmanship", "surfing", or "edging" but this is different from the heterosexual practice of "karezza".〔Ruth Marie Griffith ''Born Again Bodies'', p. 92, University of California Press, 2004 ISBN 978-0-520-24240-1〕 In Latin literature, this is known as ''coitus sine ejaculatione seminis''.〔Lloyd, J. William ''The Karezza Method'' Health Research, 1964, Mokelumne Hill, California〕 One purpose of karezza is the maintenance, and indeed, intensification of desire and enjoyment of sexual pleasure within the context of relationships. According to Stockham, it takes from two weeks to a month for the body to recover from ejaculation ... "Unless procreation is desired, let the final propagative orgasm be entirely avoided".〔Stockham, Alice B. ''Karezza'', p. 25, R. F. Fenno & Co., New York City, 1896〕 Stockham advocated that the 'honeymoon period' of a relationship could be maintained in perpetuity by limiting the frequency of ejaculations or preferably avoiding them entirely.〔Stockham, Alice B., M. D., ''Karezza'', p. 15, R. F. Fenno & Co., New York City, 1896〕 Kalman Andras writes, "Inasmuch as sexual togetherness is not limited into the physical world and does not mean quick wasting of sexual energies, by this we give free way to higher dimensions in the relationship. Effected by this we may be gotten into the state of flow experience (abbreviated as flow) and in the course of this the couple charges up with energy, while – with focused attention (Dharana) – the couple is submerging in which they are having pleasure. This state of mind is connected with the achieved beneficial effects by tantric restrain and transformation. At first the definition of positive philosophy was defined by Mihály Csíkszentmihályi and since then it is referred beyond the professional line. According to the professor the Flow-experience is an entirely focused and a motivationally intensified experience where in the course of this people can entirely focus and properly command their feelings for the best performance or learning. One of the most certain signs of Flow-experience is the spontaneity when we feel exuberant joy while we are resolving a given task. The Kegel and other PC-muscle contraction exercises have been well – tried for centuries in the Chinese sexual culture which are good for controlling the orgasm, the seminal emission or even the menses. In ESO (Extended Sexual Orgasm) described by American authors and in Karezza (“caress”) the Coitus reservatus (sexual continence literally in Latin), used by both methods, differs from the yogi process originally known from Maithuna (tantric uniting). By the prior methods maximum “dry orgasm” or retrograde ejaculation can be achieved and the question arises if we can do anything with we managed to preserve skillfully in the course of the sexual intercourse. On the contrary the Tantric Continence is a kind of spiritual realization when we transform our energy source – which is also considered as our vitality and our undeveloped spiritual powers - into Ojas Essence and disperse in the body. According to the Ayurveda this inner elixir gets inside us into the potentially sublimatable seventh state (in form of sperm or ovum) after establishing of the six matrices (dhatu). However we lose this inner elixir in an ordinary sexual intercourse, the body subtracts the necessary energy from the tissues for reproducing. In my previous book ((Yoga in bed – Tantric Continence & Spiritual Intimacy book series I. volume )) I have already presented the concentration Mudras also which are reversed body poses taken from Hatha Yoga practices in tantric approach combined with breathing exercises and muscle contractions. In the current volume ((Timeless Orgasm – Tantric Continence & Spiritual Intimacy book series II. )) I am presenting the techniques of tantric uniting and the connections of the effective application. Within that we should intensify the male and female energies with meditational instruments in favor of restoring the original affection between the genders. In the same way we should intensify the spiritual engrossment and the ability of experiencing present of which effect increasingly extend to the non-exercise period in case of regularity as mentioned before. In advance there are some clear up of misunderstandings: it is not about petting instead of sex and actually the male gives up nothing. This belief rises from the conventional wisdom which considers the orgasm on the same exact level with the ending of adult movies. By applying tantric yoga methods, but with extraordinary intensified intensity, the feeling of unity, considering its effect, becomes permanent for hours contrary to chasing ejaculation and compared to having few moment pleasure it becomes permanent for minutes. The Dear Reader, thank to the exercises, may make Vedic methods elemental part of its life in a short time which provide infinite number of orgasms without having ejaculation, even in case of choosing the active, substantiated and transcendent sexuality done as couple, even in case of choosing the individual way of doing Tantric Celibacy based on passive celibacy and inner alchemical transformation…" 抄文引用元・出典: フリー百科事典『 ウィキペディア（Wikipedia）』 ■ウィキペディアで「Coitus reservatus」の詳細全文を読む スポンサード リンク
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