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Gunnysacking : ウィキペディア英語版 | Gunnysacking Gunnysacking is when someone silently collects irritations and slights until "the last straw is placed on them" causing an overblown reaction.〔Gerry Dunne, ''Anger and Conflict Management'' (2003) p. 14〕 Gunnysacking has been described as 'an alienating fight tactic in which a person saves up, or gunnysacks, grievances until the sack gets too heavy and bursts, and old hostilities pour out'.〔M. A. Lamanna et al, ''marriages and Families'' (2006) p. 590〕 (A gunny sack is a cloth container used for carrying or storing things). ==Gunnysacking and stonewalling==
Gunnysacking is used in conflict resolution, referring to the act of "storing up" grievances acquired in the course of a relationship without systematically resolving them. 'When grievances simmer, they build and build in intensity until there's an explosion; when they are aired and worked out, it takes the pressure off'.〔Daniel Goleman, ''Emotional Intelligence'' (London 1995) p.141〕 The related practice of 'stonewalling may encourage one's partner to engage in "gunnysacking" - keeping one's grievances secret while tossing them into an imaginary gunnysack, which grows heavier and heavier over time'.〔Lamanna, p. 342〕
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