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Pseudo-listening is a type of non-listening that consists of appearing attentive in conversation while actually ignoring or only partially listening to the other speaker.〔http://www.yourdictionary.com/pseudolisten〕 The intent of pseudo-listening is not to listen, but to cater to some other personal need of the listener. The word pseudo-listening is a compound word composed of the individual words pseudo (a Latin root meaning "not real or genuine"), and listening. An example of pseudo-listening is trying to multitask by talking on the phone while watching television or completing work. Pseudo-listening is the most ineffective way to communicate because after the conversation one will not have retained much of the information that was said. == Possible Reasons for pseudo-listening == # Listening for ways someone can reject you. # Forming your response to the speaker instead of focusing on what is being said. # Preoccupation, when there is too much on the mind of the listener, so that they cannot listen. # Preexisting familiarity with the topic of conversation, which results in less effort to actively listen. # Only listening for information you want to hear, giving little attention to the rest. # Listening only for the flaws in their argument in order to gain an advantage over the speaker. # Social pressure to be courteous to those speaking. # Hope that they will believe you are listening and return the favor. # An effort to build others' views of you. # Desire not to hurt someone who is sharing experiences. 抄文引用元・出典: フリー百科事典『 ウィキペディア(Wikipedia)』 ■ウィキペディアで「Pseudolistening」の詳細全文を読む スポンサード リンク
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